The Art of Real Networking on Set: Finding Your Moment to Connect

Networking in the world of film and TV can feel like a whole different beast, especially if you’re stepping into a new arena. I’ve been working on a TV set recently, which is a bit different from my usual film projects. And, as it turns out, figuring out how to approach people—like that camera operator you’re curious about—can be a little bit of a puzzle.

The Scenario: Bridging the TV-Film Gap

So here’s the situation: when you’re used to film sets, you might feel like all the gear—cameras, mics, lights—is pretty much the same language. But the culture of TV production can have its own rhythms and rules. You see a camera operator who’s clearly got experience, and you think: “I’d love to know how they got there, but how do I even start that conversation?”

The Challenge: Finding the Right Moment to Connect

It’s not just about being shy or worrying about their demeanor. It’s also about respecting the flow of the set. Everyone’s got a job to do, and when the day wraps, people are often in a rush to get to their next gig or just get home. That can make it tricky to find that perfect moment to say, “Hey, I’m interested in what you do—any advice?”

The Approach: Seizing Those Little Windows

Here’s the takeaway: real networking on set is often about those small windows of opportunity. Maybe there’s a lull in the action, or a moment when you’re both grabbing coffee. That’s your chance to say, “Hey, I really admire your work, and I’d love to hear a little about how you got started.” It’s not about being a nuisance; it’s about being respectful, brief, and genuinely curious.

Final Tips: How to Make It Work

• Be Brief and Sincere: When you do find that moment, keep it short and genuine. A quick introduction and a simple, “I’m really interested in what you do,” can open doors.

• Respect Their Time: If they’re in a hurry, don’t push. Just say, “Maybe we can chat another time,” and leave it at that. Sometimes they’ll circle back to you when they have a free moment.

• Follow Up When Possible: If you do get a brief conversation going, and they seem open, ask if they’d be willing to share more another time—maybe over email or at lunch. You’d be surprised how many people are happy to share their journey once they know you’re genuinely interested.

In the end, real networking is about those small, authentic moments. It’s not always easy, but if you keep an eye out for those little slivers of time, you’ll find that people are often more open to sharing than you might think. And remember, everyone started somewhere. Good luck out there!